According to experts, our success is not only a product of IQ. EQ's (Emotional Intelligence) role on success is more than IQ's. Patricia Patton, an EQ expert, gave tips on how to find and nurture our self- esteem; which is called the alphabetic for personal success.
A : ACCEPT
-- Accept yourself as who you are
B : BELIEVE
-- Believe in your ability to reach what you want in life
C : CARE
-- Care for your ability to get what you want in life
D : DIRECT
-- Direct your mind into positive things that can increase your self-confidence
E : EARN
-- Earn the appreciation/recognition given by others by always being the best
F : FACE
-- Face problem righteneously and confidently
G : GO
-- Go from the truth
H : HOMEWORK
-- Homework is the most important step in gathering information
I : IGNORE
-- Ignore others' negative comment that hinder you in getting your goal
J : JEALOUSY
-- Jealousy can make you not to appreciate your talent
K : KEEP
-- Keep trying though you have failed several times
L : LEARN
-- Learn from mistake and try not to repeat it
M : MIND
-- Mind your own business and do not spread gossip about others
N : NEVER
-- Never be involved in sex scandal, drugs, and alcohol
O : OBSERVE
-- Observe your surrounding. Pay attention, listen, and learn from others
P : PATIENCE
-- Patience is a precious power that keeps you trying
Q : QUESTION
-- Question is neccesary to look for the correct answer and to gain knowledge
R : RESPECT
-- Respect yourself and others
S : SELF CONFIDENCE, SELF ESTEEM, SELF RESPECT
-- Self confidence, self esteem, self respect free us from nervousness
T : TAKE
-- Take responsibility for all your action
U : UNDERSTAND
-- Understand that life is up and down, nevertheless nothing can defeat you
V : VALUE
-- Value yourself and others, try to do the best
W : WORK
-- Work hard, do not forget to pray
X : X'TRA
-- X'tra effort brings success
Y : YOU
-- You can make something different
Z : ZERO
-- Zero effort produces zero result
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